finally i've seen KUNG FU PANDA!
i know major late at parang ako nalang ang natutuwa sa mundo about panda-monium! hahaha
cute cute!!
skundush! booom! hahaha
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
When Love Begins - finally napanood din
"When Love Begins"
Ben - Aga Mulach
Mitch - Anne Curtis
"It's not enough to accept me for what I am, but also for what I'm not." - Mitch
True. 100% true. The mere fact that accepting someone is not easy, at all, but embracing also other people's shortcomings is another part. We can't just force someone to adapt things we're used to live with. People have different ways of showing and making things happen, maybe our way or their own way. Some can be touchy, would rather say how they feel rather than show it, and some just won't show nothing but would be there. But no matter how different two people can be, if you want it to work, you'd do anything to make it; accept and never expect; easier said than done. I've tried a lot of times not to expect anything from someone but it takes a lot of time, pride, and patience to do that. Because after all the disappointments, you'll then realize that you can't change someone unless it would start from them, and also you'll realize that they've accepted everything you are (good and bad) but they never complained. Then from there you'd slowly try to make little steps towards your goal of not expecting anything, to lessen disappointments and arguments. In time you'll get there.
The most inspiring idea the movie gave me, was the "hope of waiting". Waiting can be painful, especially when that's the only thing can do. Because that's the only way you know how to make it and reach the end point, the main point of the relationship. No matter how hard each day could get, every hour/minute counts, every waking day to be noticed, if waiting for something so great to happen in the end, it's worth it.
Ben - Aga Mulach
Mitch - Anne Curtis
"It's not enough to accept me for what I am, but also for what I'm not." - Mitch
True. 100% true. The mere fact that accepting someone is not easy, at all, but embracing also other people's shortcomings is another part. We can't just force someone to adapt things we're used to live with. People have different ways of showing and making things happen, maybe our way or their own way. Some can be touchy, would rather say how they feel rather than show it, and some just won't show nothing but would be there. But no matter how different two people can be, if you want it to work, you'd do anything to make it; accept and never expect; easier said than done. I've tried a lot of times not to expect anything from someone but it takes a lot of time, pride, and patience to do that. Because after all the disappointments, you'll then realize that you can't change someone unless it would start from them, and also you'll realize that they've accepted everything you are (good and bad) but they never complained. Then from there you'd slowly try to make little steps towards your goal of not expecting anything, to lessen disappointments and arguments. In time you'll get there.
The most inspiring idea the movie gave me, was the "hope of waiting". Waiting can be painful, especially when that's the only thing can do. Because that's the only way you know how to make it and reach the end point, the main point of the relationship. No matter how hard each day could get, every hour/minute counts, every waking day to be noticed, if waiting for something so great to happen in the end, it's worth it.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
one more chance, finally
finally after a year, i've seen "One More Chance". yes, i know i'm such a loser! haha
of course, I CRIED! maybe for the whole duration of the movie..i laugh and cry at the same time. because of the "fall-back", there's a 1 hour change in our time; for some reason i just woke up around 3am and wasn't able to go back to sleep. so, i decided to watch the dvd because i'd be returning it to my sis-in-law that day too.
"it takes 2 grown ups to work a relationship" - mark (derek ramsey)
so many lines but this one got stuck and is true, its give and take, takes A LOT of patience and try as much as possible to fix the issue before the day ends.
the saddest part for me was, when popoy was only loving and trying to love tricia because at his worst, tricia was there, she took him, and made him better, made him start again. sad, because he was loving her because he owes something from her, and he feels that someone could love him at his worst, what more at his best.
i just feel that loving someone and learning to love that person at the same time is unfair for the other party. he/she is there, giving his/her all but there you are still trying to forget that past, learning to love, and loving him/her just a part from you. i mean, why do you have to fight the pain and anger by using someone else, instead of waiting 'til you're really ready to love someone with your whole self. i just believe that when you start to love someone else, you may not have forgotten your past but at least you have no doubt that you love the new person and just love.
the "ouch" scene for me was when one of their friend, played by janus, lost an engagement. then popoy comes and says all those lines. i was crying during the whole scene. (btw, forever d best si lloydie! haha)
and major factor too was the song, "i'll never go far away from you" and specifically erik santos' version, always always make me cry! add it all up, the song, the lines, the scenes = one whole night of crying! haha
and sometimes eventhough it is really painful for you to do something in the relationship, to grow, to learn, to experience, to change; you have to. whatever consequences you may get from that, whether it ends up the way you imagined it or not, you still have to, if it will make you see reality and make you, you.
of course, I CRIED! maybe for the whole duration of the movie..i laugh and cry at the same time. because of the "fall-back", there's a 1 hour change in our time; for some reason i just woke up around 3am and wasn't able to go back to sleep. so, i decided to watch the dvd because i'd be returning it to my sis-in-law that day too.
"it takes 2 grown ups to work a relationship" - mark (derek ramsey)
so many lines but this one got stuck and is true, its give and take, takes A LOT of patience and try as much as possible to fix the issue before the day ends.
the saddest part for me was, when popoy was only loving and trying to love tricia because at his worst, tricia was there, she took him, and made him better, made him start again. sad, because he was loving her because he owes something from her, and he feels that someone could love him at his worst, what more at his best.
i just feel that loving someone and learning to love that person at the same time is unfair for the other party. he/she is there, giving his/her all but there you are still trying to forget that past, learning to love, and loving him/her just a part from you. i mean, why do you have to fight the pain and anger by using someone else, instead of waiting 'til you're really ready to love someone with your whole self. i just believe that when you start to love someone else, you may not have forgotten your past but at least you have no doubt that you love the new person and just love.
the "ouch" scene for me was when one of their friend, played by janus, lost an engagement. then popoy comes and says all those lines. i was crying during the whole scene. (btw, forever d best si lloydie! haha)
and major factor too was the song, "i'll never go far away from you" and specifically erik santos' version, always always make me cry! add it all up, the song, the lines, the scenes = one whole night of crying! haha
and sometimes eventhough it is really painful for you to do something in the relationship, to grow, to learn, to experience, to change; you have to. whatever consequences you may get from that, whether it ends up the way you imagined it or not, you still have to, if it will make you see reality and make you, you.
Saturday, October 18, 2008
3 and a half men.
men can never be a multi-tasker. i haven't seen one, haven't met one, except for movies, of course! it's either you or this, you or them. which side wins? guess.
the effort is there, i think. but you see if they just try to be focused just even for a second on one thing (though at the same time) they can. but if trying is defined to them like "ok, i tried" then just say it, "i can't, i'll be back" or "i'll talk to you later, when i'm done with this". then that would be better, there's a warning, a reason for you not to whine. but i guess they'll never know this, if you're going to try, T-R-Y.
men can be such a user too, they would be busy with their own lives for a while. then one day you'd just hear from them. it ALWAYS starts with the "how's" life, school, work. then in return such a nice person would of course ask the same thing, then they'd share the what-not's of their life. then from there you'd hear the rants, dilemmas (simple thing to the why-are-you-telling-me this?). some men, or say guy or yet boy, would even tell stuffs which a few decency and thinking is needed, whether to tell it or not. but such a nice person created on earth would be in that situation, of course would give a suitable answer for a non-suitable question. and take note, they'd always run to girls.
this earthly beings can be the most lovable person in the world, but sometimes they can just be your hard-headed enemies.
the effort is there, i think. but you see if they just try to be focused just even for a second on one thing (though at the same time) they can. but if trying is defined to them like "ok, i tried" then just say it, "i can't, i'll be back" or "i'll talk to you later, when i'm done with this". then that would be better, there's a warning, a reason for you not to whine. but i guess they'll never know this, if you're going to try, T-R-Y.
men can be such a user too, they would be busy with their own lives for a while. then one day you'd just hear from them. it ALWAYS starts with the "how's" life, school, work. then in return such a nice person would of course ask the same thing, then they'd share the what-not's of their life. then from there you'd hear the rants, dilemmas (simple thing to the why-are-you-telling-me this?). some men, or say guy or yet boy, would even tell stuffs which a few decency and thinking is needed, whether to tell it or not. but such a nice person created on earth would be in that situation, of course would give a suitable answer for a non-suitable question. and take note, they'd always run to girls.
this earthly beings can be the most lovable person in the world, but sometimes they can just be your hard-headed enemies.
Friday, October 10, 2008
creme brulee
never expect what other people would do for you, never make up a scenario in your mind and believe that they would really happen. what you want to happen, may not be the same thing the other party would want. what you expect the person to do in certain situations, may not necessarily know that's what they are supposed to do. expectations only make you disappointed, make you angry, and make you think that "they should know that by now", or "that they should at least have an idea that they should do this or they should that."
but when you're just too tired of expecting, too tired of getting hurt, and you have changed at the same time and the only thing that matters to you now is how you feel towards that person, and what is true, then you'd let go of all the anxieties and expectations. because if it's a true feeling - so true, that nothing could tear it apart, nothing can change your mind, not even billy joe crawford (hahaha) then you'd just have to prepare in a different way. prepare for a different scene, worst if possible, because then there's still room for lesser worst actions that you're emotionally prepared for (tricky!).
you, yourself know that you wouldn't want to let go of something so true, so precious, and so real (although it really looks like a fictional book and is best selling). you couldn't even believe how things are going for you, how you've changed and how you've opened up totally - without barriers, pride, and pretensions. and yet still knowing that with this, fear comes along. fear of total damage when something goes wrong, a fear of another long-overdue-healing-period, a fear of being so vulnerable that, you know would do you wrong if something happens. and the funny thing is, the way you used to curse those girls who would jump off a cliff for someone, who would fight against all odds for someone, and so on, is you - you're turning to be one of them (not totally, still sane, but still symptoms off are showing..SOME).
after all the said and done, after the damaged has been done, after all the tears left unsaid (also the tears said). hard to believe, but all you can think of is how to make it work, how to mend broken feelings, how to make an extra step, how to send a heartfelt message. never was and never like you; and yet here you are all guards down and just give, love, hope, and pray. it hurts to know that one day, who knows, it might end the way you both wanted or may go the other way, but from you've learned that, what's important is how it is today, how you gave, and how you true you were. that changed you.
but when you're just too tired of expecting, too tired of getting hurt, and you have changed at the same time and the only thing that matters to you now is how you feel towards that person, and what is true, then you'd let go of all the anxieties and expectations. because if it's a true feeling - so true, that nothing could tear it apart, nothing can change your mind, not even billy joe crawford (hahaha) then you'd just have to prepare in a different way. prepare for a different scene, worst if possible, because then there's still room for lesser worst actions that you're emotionally prepared for (tricky!).
you, yourself know that you wouldn't want to let go of something so true, so precious, and so real (although it really looks like a fictional book and is best selling). you couldn't even believe how things are going for you, how you've changed and how you've opened up totally - without barriers, pride, and pretensions. and yet still knowing that with this, fear comes along. fear of total damage when something goes wrong, a fear of another long-overdue-healing-period, a fear of being so vulnerable that, you know would do you wrong if something happens. and the funny thing is, the way you used to curse those girls who would jump off a cliff for someone, who would fight against all odds for someone, and so on, is you - you're turning to be one of them (not totally, still sane, but still symptoms off are showing..SOME).
after all the said and done, after the damaged has been done, after all the tears left unsaid (also the tears said). hard to believe, but all you can think of is how to make it work, how to mend broken feelings, how to make an extra step, how to send a heartfelt message. never was and never like you; and yet here you are all guards down and just give, love, hope, and pray. it hurts to know that one day, who knows, it might end the way you both wanted or may go the other way, but from you've learned that, what's important is how it is today, how you gave, and how you true you were. that changed you.
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