dream boy, dream girl

well this is based on personal experience, friend's experience, and just an observation..=)

well if you have boylets, boyfriend, suitors, or guy fling..di ko na alam kung anong terms mayron pa ngayon! haha they tell you of course that they like you, the way you look, and the "whole" package..

and by the time you've already committed to each other (para sa boyfriend) or you're open about stuffs with each other (para sa fling, crush, MU, boylet, suitor, atbp)..you'll see that bit by bit you'll discover what kind of girls they really want..and it all boils down to their crushes, ex, past flings, etc...

if these girl in the past or present crushes has a similar attribute that you have, then he really likes you..i mean that's the kind of girl he really wanted ever since..like same features of the face, hair, body structure, skin tone, and so on..like they have a crush on this girl that is almost exactly like you, the only difference is, ARTISTA SIYA! haha then you're on the "right track" and he got was he wanted..which in return would make you feel flattered and at peace that your guy likes/loves you and he really wanted someone like you in any manner..

but if these guys would tell you that they like this specific girl and admit it or not, doesn't really look like you or not much similarity at all..then subconsciously or worst consciously! tsk that's the girls they really wanted ..the "dream girls", girls that they know they really couldn't have or girls they really just like physically and all, but maybe intellectually and the whole being isn't just there..but in this case you'd be insecure and somehow feel bothered that, the girl he likes are out of your league..

well i only shared this because it was my experience..haha at least i know who my "competitors" are..haha so i always know where i stand..but for 2 of my friends, i'd have to say sorry for them..well for one, they both just had a break up, the cause is still a mystery but well girls are girls, we go for instinct and evidences! hahaha but talking to them made me realize everything i wrote..

somehow, these guys may have seen something on my friends, but they're still looking for something else, something they really like that my friends doesn't have and yet they still had the relationship maybe for something the guys thought they really wanted..only to find out, as the years passed by, it's not my friends they were seeking for..

well of course this could go vice versa, girls can like something or someone else, the so-called "dream boys"..hahaha but not just to defend the girl's side, i just think, yes girls can have this idealistic guys in their minds, but we know how to compartmentalize..we know when crush is just a crush but we don't really want that same kind of "extra human being" to be our partners..also, some girls would want to own or to have a relationship with these guys, only to find out at the end of the relationship, that these "magical guys" should just remain as the so-called "dream boys"..